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Tuesday, 31 July 2012


I was tagged a while ago by koolfashion but for some reason I never got around to doing it so I thought I'd do it now. So here goes.
Favourite food
Pasta and vegetables
Ghanaian- Banku and okra or Fufu and light soup
Nigerian- Pounded yam and Efo 

3 words to describe yourself
Kind, Bubbly, happy
Memorable moment in your life
First time meeting dad, Kea's wedding
3 things you dislike in life
Arrogance, rudeness, bullies
3 things you love in life
Humble people, happy people + laughter, meeting new people
favourite animal
cute dogs
favourite tv show
The Big bang theory
3 goals in life
Learn spanish + other languages
Travel to many different places 
Have a good family
1 feature you love about yourself
My body
favourite verse of the bible
Psalm 91:1- He that dwells in the secret place of the most high shall abide in the shadow of the Almighty

Everyone's tagged so feel free to do it.

"Marriage- Faith & Forgiveness"

1. Marriage is a journey of Faith.
2. To err is human, but to forgive is divine

I recently attended my friend's (kea) wedding and during the service, the pastor quoted "Marriage is a journey of faith"- This touched me because it made me realise that even though people get married mostly because they love each other, none of them know what they will face along the journey. Neither do they know the outcome. All they dwell on is the "love" they have for each other in that moment as well as "hope" that all things will work for good in their marriage. Hence indirectly they are exercising Faith- (A substance of things "hoped" for and the evidence of things unseen"....Hebrews 11: 1) in their journey together as a couple.

The second lesson I learnt was "To err is human but to forgive is divine".
I had heard this quote many times yet did not really understand it until the preacher set an example in the case of married couples who because of the amount of time they spend together are bound to offend each other. In certain cases, the offence would be so much (Jesus says, blessed is he who shall not be offended in me... Matthew 11:6) so that, the foundations of the marriage could be shaken and if this happens, a marriage that has been built on a strong foundation with its entirety entrenched in Christ would find that the only thing they can do is to go back to the founder and ask for strength and this would be the definition of the divinity in forgiveness.
You see, when we are offended, we don't forgive because we are perfect and it's so easy rather we forgive because, we were once sinners deemed to perish except for the forgiveness of our sins through the blood of Jesus

Therefore as humans we are bound to err, but when we offend others, their ability to forgive us is only due to the fact that, they themselves have been forgiven hence they are able to do the same to others i.e. divine forgiveness. God alone can help us to forgive. We cannot give what we do not have. We can only forgive because we have received forgiveness from God. Hence he has shown us an example and is only asking that we do the same with others.

May God help us all to practice forgiveness in our relationships and allow us to abide in faith and love in our marriages in Jesus name Amen.

Wednesday, 11 July 2012


1. Be willing to step out there on faith
2. It's not how heavy the load is you carry; It's how you carry the load
3. Don't lose sight of the mission
4. Count your blessings each day
5. Get a grip of what has a grip of you
6. Drop activities that sap your energy
7. The borrower is servant to the lender
8. Do not borrow unless it is to create wealth
9. Whatever takes money out of your pocket is a liability


Texttexttiles blogged this video by TDS on "Ambition" and drive and I was inspired after watching this so i thought I'd share. I hope you are too.
Have a pleasant week!

Thursday, 5 July 2012

"I remember me"

I love jennifer Hudson. Ilistening to her song, "I remember me" so I thought I'd share it with you guys.

Enjoy and have a blessed day